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Priscilla Payne's avatar

All of this is so true! I have tried raising my voice so many times but it’s is like a voice crying in the wilderness and no one is listening and there are not enough voices being raised. We need an army of voices.

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Lisa's avatar

Thank you again for another hard hitting essay to snap us back to reality. I have found more than anything else, when I speak my truth as a woman I am demeaned, devalued or dismissed. Maybe it is because I pay particular attention to this- the words used, the body language of the other person. But it is clear to me when I step out of my role (as viewed/defined by someone else) I get pushback, from both men and other women. This collective, invisible fear that has taken hold of our culture since 2016 is traumatizing and debilitating. It feels like everyone is on e inch from going over the edge into some kind of abyss and the silent terror gripping everyone is ....well....terrifying. So they snap back at someone who isn't normalizing every thing or dares to question things. Even worse are those acting like nothing is going on at all. I have a solid community of friends around me which is comforting but it seems we are all living day to day, not sure of what is coming next. Sorry for the rambling but your post required some deep contemplation. Thank you again for always giving us the jolt we need.

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