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This is so powerful. And self-forgiveness is so hard. And always asking why? Why did this happen? You are so brave and articulate.

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I don’t have adequate words for how I’d like to explain to you the power of what you’ve so beautifully, painfully written & connected -- but thank you for using your gift of expression to share it with the rest of us🙏

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I had to read this in spurts because too much of it resonates my reality. I also don't get forgiveness...not for those who have wronged me, no, that's done & said & for the most part, forgotten. I don't get it for ME. Grace is always elusive; a ghost just winging past my lined-up sins. Maybe, together, we can heal. Thank you.

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powerful. growth starts with self love , self forgiveness. We tend to not consider our own needs first because that's been drilled into us over generations. But we are on that path now! And that feels good ...been feeling freer happier since honouring my needs first.

LOVE your beautiful writing.

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So powerful, brought tears! I too testified against my employer/abuser in a Harrisburg courtroom. Your essays should be mandatory reading for anyone who wants a leadership role., and frankly, for everyone at the appropriate age.

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